Cleared for Surgery

We are ready for surgery and most of all Andrew is ready and excited to have this surgery. We completed our pre-op evaluations with the pediatrician and with the ophthalmologist. Andrew is still at a strong 20/50 and will have surgery on only his left eye. The surgery is outpatient so we will arrive early on the morning of June 3rd at Gramercy Outpatient Clinic in Downtown Houston. This clinic is actually right across the street from where we go to see Dr. Mazow so it is familiar territory for us. Little Andrew will have to have nothing to eat after midnight the night before until after his surgery, so we are hoping for an early surgery time slot. At this point we will not know the exact time of the surgery until the day before.

We start giving Andrew antibiotic eye drops at 3 days prior to surgery (pray for him on this it is not fun for him!) After surgery we will have to give him the same drops plus an anti-inflammatory eye drop several times a day. He will have no bandages after surgery, but we have been told that it is possible to have bruising although not likely. He will however likely have red, bloodshot eyes for a day or two and his eye will feel like he has sand in it. The most difficult of the post op time is that for 2 weeks he cannot swim, even get bath/shower water in his eye nor any dirt. So, basically he can't be a BOY for two weeks! Well, we will catch up on a few movies and learn some new board games to play. Any suggestions for fun games is greatly appreciated.

It is strange I am finding myself grieving this change a little. Andrew's eye has just been part of who Andrew is so the thought of how different he will look has taken me by surprise. I know it will be better in every way, but that cute little eye turn is part of my first memory of seeing my sweet little boy. I will miss it. Just as one day the little boy diminishes and the young man emerges, life is about changes...we never stay the same.

Thank you to the many who have encouraged us throughout this year as we have journeyed through this process that has led us to surgery at this appointed time with this specific doctor. We are so thankful for the many prayers and notes of encouragement over the past year.

Providential Postponement

We were two weeks from surgery, but have now decided to wait another 2 months. Over the past week and half we have been working with a Chiropractic Neurologist. This began as a search to help alleviate some back and neck pain that David has had chronically for years now and that I have started having 4 weeks ago; I think pregnancy related. Anyway, in the course of evaluating and working with Dr. Ky we decided to go ahead and have the kids evaluated also. As it turns out Andrew was off the chart in an area in the neck that is considered critical to a healthy central nervous system. This particular area is known for affecting the eyes as well.
After much prayer we decided to postpone Andrew's surgery a few months to give Dr. Ky a chance to work on Andrew and just see if he improves. If nothing else we believe it will help Andrew to be in better shape for the surgery.
I am not quite sure why this surgery thing has been such a difficult process for us. Everyone we have talked to who has had the surgery says it is a "piece of cake" as far as surgery goes. It seems just as we have dealt with it and moved forward with plans for surgery something providentially steps in that causes us to postpone. Maybe we have just needed more time; I do not know, but we prayerfully weigh what is best for Andrew and desire for him the very best outcome for his vision. I never knew how hard it is when there are so many varying opinions of treatment to single out what is the best one for the whole kid. I feel like I am constantly coming back to focus on what is best for Andrew as a whole child not just a pair of eyes. That may seem strange, but over the course of 10 months David and I have desperately tried to keep that perspective because Andrew has been changing so rapidly in so many areas one month it may seem like there is a problem but it resolves itself the next or because of the severity of trying to "fix" one thing it throws other areas out of whack. One thing is for sure it has kept us on our face before the Lord in Andrew's behalf causing us to trust the Lord more with each new challenge.
I should also note that Dr. Mazow gave us the option of waiting until summer anyway to do Andrew's surgery it was only because we believed nothing else could be done that we pursued surgery so quickly. We have now moved surgery to May 27, 2009...Lord willing. For now we will continue to patch 6-8hrs daily to "hold" his vision and begin tomorrow with Andrew's first adjustments at the Chiropractor.