We are the Shiflet family...David,Gina,Emily and J.Michael. We have been praying for years to adopt children from Russia and soon we will be on our way to meet two precious children to bring into our home as a forever family. It is a journey of faith, trusting our sovereign Lord, believing in His power, and persevering through the trials....here is our story. Now, home with our Andrew and Kathlena we wanted to continue to share our journey post-adoption with our friends and family...
Thursday, May 22, 2008
The Wooden Village
We have papers
Paw Paw, I have to retract my comment from yesterday. As soon as I got back to the room from posting Emily had already figured out a way to to teach Andrew how to distinguish between Paw-Paw and Papa(pop-uh). He has got it now. He goes around saying to himself Dedushka-DoDad, Babushka-Nana and Dedushka-PawPaw(very drawn out with Emily's southern drawl) and Babushka-Grandmommie. It is so cute...I can only imagine what is going on in his mind to think of having two sets of grandparents when just a short time ago he had no parents or siblings. He is still looking through his picture book at the faces of grandparents he cannot wait to meet.
We have one more night here at the Dvina Hotel. It has been a wonderful experience to stay here. We were so concerned about noone speaking English. Pointing and picture books take you a long way and the people are so gracious with us. David went down stairs to make copies of our adoption certificates and birth certificates to take with us to the Wooden Village in case we were asked any questions. When David returned from the business center to pay for the copies the lady at the front in English said "no payment for you, a small gift from us" They knew we were adopting and were very happy for us and the kids. It is one of the things I was not sure how people here would react to. Would they be glad? So far yes! I think they are happy for the children as they must know there are so many in this town that need homes.
I would definitely stay in this hotel again. Once we figured out the Internet situation it has been great. We have two points of access. We are on the 4th floor and wireless Internet is on the 5th floor lobby with an Internet access card purchased. So, I go and connect, open the post window, then come back to the room, type, then go back to the 5th floor and post. For video and pictures David has to go to the 1st floor lobby to the business center, get the key, then he is able to access blog and upload pics and video. It is a great set up now that we figured it out. Another big bonus of this hotel is the market next door. We have made all of our meals in our room which is great with 4 kids. David makes his daily run for milk, lunch meat, cereal, pastries (kolaches, strudel) and water (8 liter bottles at a time). The market has a great a bakery that we smell every morning and wait patiently for it to open at 9am (which seems like a long time when you are up at 5am everyday). It also has a deli that has wonderful sausage sliced...great since we do not have knives!
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Happy Anniversary...the first 24hrs with Andrew and Kathlena
The children have done so well. Better than I could have imagined. They slept without a peep all night. Kathlena awoke with some amazing bed hair...I think David is posting some pictures soon of this. Nana get out your hair tools ready...she has more hair than we thought. Emily and J.Michael both, along with Mom and Dad have been working with them on their English. It is amazing how quickly they are picking it up. They are like little parrots but some words are really sticking...they are understanding it.
Andrew is so sweet...he really loves to be hugged and held, but is shy about it. I think he is so overwhelmed with the "dream" of having a family really being true. His big smile, eagerness to learn, and be loved is an answer to many years of prayer for him--our God is so faithful. We know there is much to be done and worked on with these children, but truly we see that the Lord in his mercy and grace for his children has gone before us and prepared them for this change. Andrew is parroting everything including whole phrases of English. I was sitting with him working with the First 1000 Words in Russian book and I would say "what is this?" he would say "what is this?" then I said "no you tell me what is this?" and he repeated that whole phrase to me we all laughed as I realized he will just repeat whatever I say...understanding will come though. He is so smart.
Kathlena too is eager to learn and so smart. I was playing a counting game with her with rubles and she would repeat every number I said up to 8, well that was all the ruble coins we had so she might have counted more but truly it is amazing how a little one on one attention and they are picking up so much. I had been told numerous times that the language really would not be an issue but for me 'seeing was believing" and I can tell you language is not an issue even with older children. Their desire to have a family and assimilate into that family is so much greater. Kathlena is all girl. She goes around the hotel room "tidying" up. She picks up lint off the floor and puts it in the trash. She is always busy, working and really is fascinated with the commode flushing. I am not too concerned with potty training. I am glad we brought pull ups though, because she did go potty in the pull up during the night, but during the day she will tell me "potty" also learned in the last 24hrs. She lets me feed her and when she wants more she says "ahhh" which I said to her to get her to open her mouth more. Now she thinks this means more. She sucks her thumb when she is laying down to nap or sleep at night.
Grandparents will be glad to know that Andrew can already say your names to your pictures. He says"Dedushka-DoDad" and Babushka-Nana and Babushka-Grandmommie" Now PawPaw we are still working on yours he knows you are dedushka(Grandpa) but PawPaw is a little confusing with Papa that he calls David, but we are still working on it. Kathlena is taking it all in and smiles when she sees your pictures...it will be neat to see what they do when they meet you. I was so impressed at both orphanages with the caretakers diligence to go over the photo albums we left for them. When we took Andrew to go get Kathlena we got to see Kathlena's group one more time. When we entered the room one of the caretakers began talking to Andrew. She talked to him about his airplane bed that she had seen in the picture book...obviously she had gone over it many times.
Well today has been a challenging, good day. We have had to stay in our hotel room mostly for today, as we do not have Andrew and Kathlena's papers yet, so we have been advised not to leave the hotel. Our Russian is not good and if someone were to speak to the children we would not know what they are saying. To be on the safe side we are staying put. Sad because it is a beautiful day today...the sun is actually out. David and the boys just went to run stairs to burn off some energy...the room is getting smaller by the hour! Fortunately, the hotel has 12 floors so they had a good climb. We get papers at 6pm from Helen so we will be able to get out tomorrow. Hopefully, the weather will hold as we hope to go tour the Wooden Village. It is one of the only attractions in Arkhangelsk. This town is know for wood crafting...how appropriate for our children to come from this town as David loves to work with wood as a hobby.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Back from the orphanages
Leaving the orphanage was bittersweet. The people really love these kids and they are so happy to have them go to a family but they are attached to them also. Dina at Andrew's orphanage asked if I would continue to send pictures by email. We did find out that Andrew received every email we sent...Dina even mentioned it to the judge in court. She said that Andrew was asking her all the time "how much longer? how much longer? it is taking too long". In court the Director of his orphanage told the judge that Andrew used to ask her all the time why a family had never come for him...she tried to console him that a family would probably come some day. She (Dina) said he has always wanted a family, so when we came the first time, he was so eager to go with us, and being in a family has been all that he has talked about since. The little photo album of us we gave him was the only possession he brought with him...his other gifts from us he gave to his other friends left behind. We also brought candy for the other kids which Andrew eagerly gave out to his friends. They all seemed so happy for him. He was still so proud of his photo album and looked at it over and over in the cab ride to Kathlena's orphanage. It has seen much wear and tear in the last 3 months. We are absolutely amazed at how smart he is...we are not sure if he will still be speaking Russian by the time we hit American soil. He repeats everything he hears, especially from J.Michael and Emily.
When we arrived at Kathlena's we were given some of her art work and a special little book that the orphanage made for her to take with her about her time in the orphanage. We even received a few young photos of her at 13 months and 19 months. She really liked her new clothes...she is all girl. She is very curious and active...I will be busy! We went back to Kathlena's group for her to say her good-byes. It was very hard on one of the caregivers...she made me cry. Some communication trancends language. It was very comforting to know that Kathlena was loved so much by the ladies that cared for her. She was ready to go, though! We made our rounds to all of the staff-the neurologist, director, social workers, etc. They were all very kind. We are so blessed. Will try to post pics soon of us bringing them from the orphanage.
We're legal now!
Arkhangelsk Regional Court
Celebrating on the steps of the courthouse. (From left to right) Sergei, Daddy, Mommy, J. Michael, Helen, Dina (Andrew's orphanage director) and Anna (court appointed translator).
We we very impressed with Sergei, both in our meetings yesterday and also today in court. Keep in mind he is a Russian government official (Director of the Regional Ministry of Education). He is a very kind man who seemed very eager to see these children become members of our family. He even "thanked" us for doing this! He even made a point today to greet Emily and J. Michael, and he shook J. Michael's hand.
Dina has also blessed us. She had very kind things to say to the judge today about our family. She personally appeared in court, which often is not done by an orphanage director. She is a very sweet lady who is very happy to see Andrew getting a home.
More details from Court
Funny moments from court. Well, mostly court was the solemn occasion it should be but, then we are Shiflet's and it is hard to stay completely serious for 1hr and a half. Actually, this was purely accidental but I nearly cracked up...fortunately I kept my wits about me. In court the judge asks you a series of questions of which our translator has given us specific answers to some we simply say "yes" or "no" where appropriate and others have a more lengthy explanation. On one of the answers David responded "si" which is spanish for yes. He had been answering with yes or "Da" or no or "neight" but for some reason "si" came out. We all laughed til we cried when we got back to the hotel. Fortunately, our translator said "Da" and kept on going. I don't think the judge ever noticed he had said anything different. Well, it will be one of those funny stories to go along with the special day today is.
Well I have got to run David and I are off to the market to get cakes and diapers. Will try to write more as time permits and post pictures but with 4 kids in a hotel room time will suddenly be limited for posting. Das Va Danya--Goodbye!
"Labor" of Court...."Birth" of Adoption
We're back at the hotel for lunch and a quick break. Our translator, Helen, will meet us at 1pm to go over our schedule. The court promised to have the birth certificates and other documents (with new names) ready by this afternoon. With these documents we can apply for passports and get out of here!
We should be able to pick up Andrew and Kathlena later today and have them with us beginning tonight. It's very exciting to see this stage of our journey coming to an end. It will take a couple of days to get the passports; we're tentatively scheduled to leave Ark on Friday for Moscow. This will be a welcomed change, because we will have a 3 room apartment with a kitchen (!!!) in Moscow instead of a hotel room with four kids. We feel like were camping four stories up. At least there is a market just outside the hotel.
Monday, May 19, 2008
Urgent Prayer Request
More pics from our pre-court visit.
We also met with our court-appointed translator, Anna, to review the schedule and what to expect in the court proceedings. We leave for court at 9:30 am tomorrow. By the time most of you wake up at home tomorrow , we should have legal custody of Andrew and Kathlena!
Just wait 'til they can race outside!
Now picture this in green Houston grass with two big dogs joining in!
I'm a biased dad, but you gotta admit that's a good looking boy!
Finally seeing Andrew and Kathlena again!
Pictures of Arkhangelsk
The airport with snow melting...
Out on a walk down from our hotel.
Just clowning around.
We will be heading to the orphanage in about an hour to visit with Andrew and Kathlena. So glad we have figured out how to post the pictures. We will have a long day ahead of us as we will visit both orphanages and then meet with the Ministry of Education, Sergei then with our translator for court preparation for tomorrow. Our court hearing is at 10:00 am.
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Moscow apartment pics.....FINALLY!
Leaving the apartment early morning in the rain...
Our wordsmith at work.....
J. Michael in the living room....
Bags must go up three floors...
Entrance to the apartment building....
No pics so far...internet adventure continues
Tomorrow we leave for Andrew's orphanage at 10:40, and then will go to Kathlena's orphanage. "Sergei" from the Department of Education will be there at Kathlena's orphanage to observe us with the children. Tomorrow at 2pm, we go to Sergei's office to prepare my speech for court at 10am Tuesday; Gina is thankful that I have to speak on behalf of the family in court. She will only have to say she agrees with me--maybe I should ask for a copy of the transcript to have that on record:-)
OK, so I just tried to upload some compressed pictures, and the bandwidth won't support even one small picture at a time-definately no video will be coming in the next few days. I'll try again in the business center to post some pictures. Apparently 200 rubles wasn't enough!
From Emily: Saturday 5/17
Five years ago, my parents decided to adopt. I was eight then and was thrilled at the prospect of another sibling, but did not share my parent’s sentiments concerning Russia. Fast forward 5yrs to when we went on our first trip to Russia and met Andrew and Kathlena. While we were in St. Petersburg we did a lot of touring, and really got a chance to get to know Russia, and it’s people, I gradually began to fall in love with this country, it’s bitter cold artic wind, it’s beautiful old buildings, it’s history, and it’s rather melancholy way of life.
Then upon returning home we went into a three-month in-depth study of Russian history. We read The House by the Dvina –an autobiography of a survivor of the time of the Russian revolutions and the Soviet era. In addition to this I did a great deal of complementary online research. It was through this time I truly began to love Russia, despite its flaws. I learned to love this country as I do my own, and this love reached an augmenting climax on the flight to Moscow.
After nine and a half hours of flying over the Atlantic Ocean, Greenland, Sweden and various other countries, we slowly began to descend as we neared the capital of Russia. I switched seats with J.Michael and began taking pictures of the scenery out the window. As the little quilt patches began to take shape we suddenly went into a colossal cloud. At times, the ever-present airplane wing-several rows in front of us-would vanish in the dense fog, only to reappear for but a moment.
We were in the cloud for several minutes when unpredictably we burst out of the cloud and had an unobstructed view of the land below us. My breath caught in my throat as I beheld the immense beauty that was before me. Beautiful crystal blue rivers woven through green meadows, diminutive villages, and fields of minute yellow flowers. The setting sun shone favorably upon this immaculate scene, sending it’s warm and inviting rays of pink, purple, and golden yellow out to embrace the glorious scene.
I was finished. Like it or not I was in love with Russia, for better of worse.
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5/17/o8
We are now on a plane to Arkhangel’sk, the time is drawing nearer. We have been waiting five years for this day to come; yet it seems so surreal. We have been talking about the day “when there are six of us” for some time now, but it always was a distant, far-off event. A dream, that is always before us, never with us, much less behind us.
Yet here I am, on a Russian plane, which is even now descending upon my brother and sister’s homeland. In a matter of days we will appear in Russian court and Andrew and Kathlena will be adopted into our family “once and for all”.
from Gina: Sunday morning
We arrived in Arkhangelsk finally after a three-hour delay due to snowstorms in Arkhangelsk. Our plane was to take off at 10:00am and we had been at the airport since 7:30 to go through security and check luggage. At around 9:00am we were sent to check in and once through security we waited at the gate to check our luggage, but no one was there. As we waited two young men and a young woman approached us and asked if we were flying to Arkhangelsk…they were on our same flight. When we could not understand them they realized we spoke English; they then told us of our flight delay. We explained that we were Americans here to complete our adoption of two children. All three, Ivan, Olga and Yurdic, were very nice and helpful and we spent most of the next three hours visiting with them. All three of them spoke very good English, and it was again a display of God’s traveling mercies on us to have met them. It is only when we are at the airport for intra country flights that we do not have translators from our agency with us.
When we boarded the plane the Lord providentially placed our new friends in seats that were right behind us, so we continued to visit with them until we arrived in Arkhangelsk around 3:30pm.
On our first trip we really began to have a love for the Russian people; now after having had the opportunity to visit and get to know Ivan, Olga, and Yurdic the Lord has knit us closer to this country and it’s young people.
As soon as we disembarked the plane we saw a familiar face, Vladimir, the man who was our driver on our first trip. Helen does not arrive until tomorrow so we had another translator, Irina to help us get settled in at the hotel. The Hotel Dvina is quite nice and we are in a two-room suite. The best part is that we are right next to a huge market/mall so we are able to go and buy food—part of our international camping is preparing meals with only an electric teakettle and a refrigerator! I love the challenge. The coffee toddy is brewing…decided this time to take no chances and just brought the coffee toddy maker with us and of course our Starbucks coffee.
from David, Saturday night.
As I’m writing this, it’s Saturday at 9:30pm (just after noon Saturday back home), and Gina and the kids are down for the night I think. I can’t get connected to the internet, so this post will not be “live” when it goes up. We have finally arrived in
It’s been a wearisome couple of days, but our Lord has been very kind to us. Many of you have been praying for us, specifically for “traveling mercy”. I reminded my troops this morning that we have experienced precisely that. We had a wonderful apartment in Moscow last night, and although we had been up for almost 35 hours (excepting unproductive airplane naps), four + hours sleep last night was able to refresh us all tremendously, and we were delighted over a simple breakfast this morning and by the excitement of traveling still closer to the moment of liberation. I’m reminded of Psalm 3:5 and 4:7-8. It’s worth looking up these verses. Amen.
Then today our flight was delayed due to heavy snow storms in
Mission Impossible?
I did manage to blow a breaker in our hotel room with our voltage converter, and somehow successfully communicated to the front desk (with a children's translation picture book) that we had no power. J. Michael suggested pointing to the picture and saying "ka-BLOO-ee!!!" Thanks son, that's why Mommy sends me to go to the front desk. The maintainance man flipped the breaker and we're back in business. Too bad our picture book was written in 1983 and isn't any help with internet-related issues.
Gina, Emily and I all wrote some things to post, but I can't upload documents or pics to the hotel computer, and laptops will not connect. So maybe we'll get to add those later. Let's just say getting here was an adventure. Heavy snow storms in late May?? We must be in Russia! For now, I want to thank our new Russian friends Ivan, Olga, and Yari (hope I spelled correctly). You were a blessing to us yesterday!
God is good; we are all safe and well, and we get to see Andrew and Kathlena tomorrow!
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Heading to Ark
The streets of Moscow.
Emily is very excited as we are able to see some of the "White Nights". The sun went down last night at 10pm and it was daylight by 5am. We all had a restful night even amidst the sounds of the city. Us country folks are not use to hearing the all night sounds of a bustling city...especially on a Fri. night. We truly feel that we are experiencing what others are praying for us...traveling mercies. Thank you faithful friends for lifting us up.
It is raining here in Moscow today but it is a beautiful city. I am trying to soak up all the sights, sounds, and smells so that years from now when I am telling this story over and over to my children and one day grandchildren. I will remember every aspect of this foreign land that has now been grafted into our heritage.
Breakfast in our apartment. Yummy Russian pastries and kefir/yogurt.